My intuition always told me that women are smarter than men. Now I am not being sexist or maybe I am. It's been recognised as real for centuries, scoffed at by many, yet an undeniable, inexplicable reliable phenomenon since the dawn of time; a woman's intuition. Women have relied upon it, men have feared it, lives have been saved by it and pride restored with it. I was taught from a young age to listen to and rely upon mine, thank goodness!
After 2 yrs of being subjected to a “cheating boyfriend” a man I trusted, a man who had always treated me with the utmost respect, I began to get a funny feeling. A feeling I tried to ignore as silly insecurities. But persist in nagging me it did, so much so that I could no longer ignore it. I had no definable reasons, no tell tale signs really, but I believed, felt, intuitively KNEW, he was cheating on me.
So one day when he said he was leaving for work. I followed him in a rickshaw. He stopped at CCD. First to give him a benefit of doubt I told myself he wanted coffee. But that feeling lasted only for a second. He went and sat next to a girl colleague who I met a few times at his work parties. They were holding hands!
So one day when he said he was leaving for work. I followed him in a rickshaw. He stopped at CCD. First to give him a benefit of doubt I told myself he wanted coffee. But that feeling lasted only for a second. He went and sat next to a girl colleague who I met a few times at his work parties. They were holding hands!
I left and went home and waited. It was like someone had punched my gut and was now trying to squeeze it. Later when I confronted him it was like I always knew it! My instincts always pointed out “He wasn’t the GUY!”
So girls don’t ignore the signs, they are your intuitions! Listen to your gut because I did and now I am with a man who is a sweetheart & my husband!!
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